lf you send an intimidating  text or message with use of Internet is cyber bullying.bullying. Cyber bullies are those guys who just want other kids  to feel bad about themselves and this is not even different from the normal bullying. The increased rate of use of the Internet by teenagers  has also increased the rate of cyberbullying  ,to extent  that they create pseudonymous names  just to torment and leaving other peoples kids feeling embarrassed and humiliated. To those who think cyber bullying is a joke they should just STOP !!’cause cyber bullying is for people who have problems  at their  homes and just to feel good by stepping on the vulnerable  kids .

NB: To those guys being bullied on-line do not reply  with nasty words ’cause it will never change anything but it will only go   from bad to worse as would have become one of them! Seek help from your parents ,an elderly person,teachers or anyone who can be of your help



Say goodbye to the old you n say hello to the new you, which in this context is 2016 and yourself. Though many of us have being focusing on family parties ,holiday parties and winter activities, there is another tradition looming just round the bend, the famous New Year’s resolutions .And rather than let this tradition sneak up on us, l suggest we take some time to reflect and prepare our resolutions also.

lt’s that time of  the year ,when people have a set of goals and if you are   anything like me, your list of New Year’s resolutions reads like a sort of global to-do list.We resolve to change our diet ,exercise more,travel to new places,and finish big projects.We resolve to be better by doing more. You have probably heard these cleches a thousand times. This  year instead of resolving  to fit into a new pair of skinny jeans,what would happen if we did unconventional and live boldly? What would happen if we pursued living in a way thats intentional and purposeful , disregarding a checklist of requirements and a set of scripted conversations? You will have moments in life in which you will feel like the candles have blown out , the magic faded , but throwing  in the towel is not an option.

Change your resolutions into something different that will get your mind to do all that needs to be done. You see thats why l never liked the word resolutions as it suggests something that has been tried and often failed.Resolutions do not us much good but frustrate us when we look back and try  to account for that which has not been achieved.So l think instead of coming up with a long list  of resolutions ,rather commit yourself to changing the bad and learning new things that will help you change for the better


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  •  tiered cakes emerged from a game where the bride and groom attempted to kiss over an even higher cake without knocking it over.
  • The English believe a spider in a wedding dress means good luck.
  • ln English tradition,Wednesday is considered the “best day” to marry ,although Monday is for wealth an Tuesday is for health.
  • Saturday is the unluckiest wedding day,according to English folklore.Funny–it’s the most popular day of the week to marry.
  • Rain on your wedding is considered good luck according to the Hindu tradition!
  • For good luck, Egyptian pinch the bride on her wedding day ! OUCH.
  • In Asia, wearing robes with embroidered cranes symbolizes fidelity for the length of a marriage.
  • Ancient Greeks and Romans thought the veil protected the bride from evil spirits.Brides worn veils ever since.
  • In Denmark, brides and grooms traditionally cross-dress to confuse evil spirits.
  • Moroccan  women take a milk bath to purify themselves before their wedding ceremony.
  • In Holland ,a pine tree is planted outside the newlyweds’ home as a symbol of fertility and lucky.
  • Peas are thrown at Czech newlyweds instead of rice.
  • A Swedish bride puts a silver coin from her father and a gold coin from her mother in each  shoe to ensure that she’ll never do without.
  • Engagement and wedding rings are worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because it was thought that a vein in that finger led directly to the HEART!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • The tradition of a wedding cake comes from ancient Rome ,where revelers broke a loaf of bread over a bride’s head for fertility’s sake.

Inside Out and the Politics of Feeling

As pretty much anyone who’s ever met me can attest to, I have a lot of feelings. About everything. I have a lot of feelings about reproductive rights, education policy, the environment; I cry at the end of happy movies and sad movies and at emotionally charged scenes in the middle of movies; since the birth of my niece I even occasionally cry at commercials featuring babies. I’m not quite at Kristen Bell levels of emotional lability, but I’m pretty close. Traditionally, having an abundance of feelings has been associated with a lack of rational thought. Calling someone “emotional” is a hair’s breadth away from calling them “hysterical”; it signals an inherent “femininity,” an inability to think straight. “You’re being emotional” is used to dismiss women, whether they are calling out sexism or arguing about whose turn it is to clean. There are other variants on this theme: “Calm down,”…

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Labour of love

A year ago, a guy walked into the post office and he saw a middle-aged balding man standing at the counter.This man was methodically placing  “love” stamps on bright pink envelopes with hearts all over them. He takes out a bottle and sprays scent all  over them.

The guy’s curiosity got the better side of him. He then goes up to the man and asked him what he was doing,the confidently said,’l am sending out 10000 Valentines’ Day Cards signed ”GUESS WHO?” He then asked why he would do such a thing and to his surprise the guy said he was a Divorce Lawyer.

How Many Novels Can There Be?

Sublime Curiosity

I like reading. I like writing. When you’ve been writing for a while, you start to get really obsessed with word counts. Anybody you talk to about publishing something you’ve written will want to know your word count. For short fiction, you sometimes get paid by the word. And the number of words in the thing you’ve written determines whether it counts as a short story, a novella, a novel, as War and Peace, or as an encyclopedia.

Every year, I participate in National Novel-Writing Month. Unless, you know, I don’t feel like it. But I’ve participated more years than not, and I’ve produced a surprising number of novels. Every single one of them terrible, but that’s not NaNoWriMo’s fault. The goal in NaNoWriMo is to write a novel of at least 50,000 words in 30 days. And I got to thinking: how many novels that length are

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Becoming yourself is really hard and confusing and its a process. l was completely the eager beaver in school.l was a girl in front of the class who was the first person to put her hand up, and its often not cool to be the person that puts  them self out there , and  l’ve often got teased mercilessly, but l found ultimately if you truly pour your heart  into what you believe in. Even if it make you vulnerable because amazing things can and will happen.

P.S : Never let anyone ruin your self esteem because in life some people were actually born to discourage others and those kinda people will always talk whether you do good or bad.This is for those of us girls who have always felt inferior to others and my advise to you is that never risk your happiness just to make people  happy because their happiness  ain’t your responsibility.


If this isn’t love then tell me what it is !!!

l am calling his for now just to tell him how much l really love him because he is everything l want.l pray to God every to send me an angel up from above to make me love him for life.That is why we perfect because its the only way l can describe us.Its like am missing my other half every time he steps out,l pray for him more than l pray for myself.l am juss selfish because l dont wanna share him with nobody else  thats why we are perfect.